Grief is about so many questions: “Why?” “Why me?” “Why didn’t God answer my prayers for healing?” “Why did this have to happen?” “Why did he or she have to die (and not me)?” “How can I go on without my loved one?” These are the questions of despair that disturb and roil your soul. Answers are elusive—some you figure out by logic and reasoning; some become clear over time. For others, there simply are no answers. Hope in God.